I suppose I couldn’t have picked a better day to make my debut as a regular, weekly blogger for ThePinkFund.org. After all, Valentine’s Day is indeed a holiday that’s all about red, white, and pink.
I met Molly MacDonald, the founder of The Pink Fund and a fellow breast cancer survivor, a few weeks ago. But only after she had tried to reach out to me via e-mail not once, not twice, but three times.
That’s because I knew why she was contacting me. I wasn’t being rude. I was being stubborn.
The Pink Fund is a Michigan-based organization that provides short-term financial assistance to women and men in Michigan who are going through breast cancer treatment.
Molly encouraged me to fill out the application to see if there were some bills The Pink Fund could help us with while I’m in treatment.
At first, I didn’t want to.
“There must be people out there who need this more than me,” I said to her, noting the roof above my head, clothes on my back, and food on my table.
“Maybe,” Molly said. “But that’s not the point. You’ve got to help yourself.”
I thought about what she said and the lesson that Don and I regularly try to convey to our five-year-old son, Theo. “It’s OK to ask for help. Everyone needs a little help sometimes,” we tell him.
If I’m going to talk the talk, I also need to walk the walk. So, I filled out the application.
A few days later, Molly called to let me know that my application had been considered by The Pink Fund Committee, and that they had decided to cover our DTE Energy bill and phone bill for the month of February.
I’m very grateful. Because, even though I continue to work as I’m able, and my hubby continues to work, too, a little help relieves a lot of pressure. It means that if, on the days I’m truly not up to working, I don’t have to. That’s a little thing that is very big.
So, hats off to Molly MacDonald and her team at ThePinkFund.org. Five years ago, when I was first going through breast cancer treatment, they didn’t exist. Now they do.
What a giant leap forward for breast cancer patients and their families.
Check out my first blog post.
And Happy Valentine’s Day!
Copyright 2011, Amy Rauch Neilson